Decalogo of Safety for the Personal meetings on internet

On I Swap. net you find hundred of Men and Women that, putting their personal announcement, want to find their soul twins or piu' simply a person with that correspond.

Of I continue we make available you a precious decalogo that we put to point also on the base of the reports that sometimes there arrive aside of subjects that are run in situations done not expect. Leggilo perche' would be able to be you useful to avoid meetings disappointing.

Who it goes slow it goes healthy and it goes distant. ... The first contacts should happen exclusively means email and without hustle. If the speaker you are have to stretch out establish and' really the one or the one that itself and' described in the announcement. If after the first mail comes asked you immediately the telephone contact bushels attentive perche' would be able to be a number to specially expensive payment, in the doubt questions the Telecom to know the tariff of the number that bushels to compose.

Not and' rare, in fact, that behind the announcement itself us it it an agency that first or then wonders some money, or a different person of sex from that with which itself and' presented, or wonders meetings to payment or of to express telephone numbers specially onerous to converse. It multiplies them you it it if the announcement and' completed with a photograph of a VERY ATTRACTIVE PERSON that an actor seems almost or an actress, often it is discussed of photograph discusses from internet. To unmask such deciet and' sufficient ask other photograph in different contexts.

Not to Pay out ever an alone hundredth to chichessia before having seen directly (do not means internet) the person with that you would want to have a connection.

Qaundo you retain to find yourself in a different situation from what awaited you the what piu' tests, in order not to run risks, and' that of lasciar to decline the contact.

Not to reveal immediately your personal data The replies to the yours you announce arrive our means server and who answers to the your announcement do not and' to the running one of the your address email. Only when you decide to answer them he comes to knowledge of your address email.

And' timely that until when you do not decide passerby to the telephone contact you yourselves not it it other elements that possano to agree the speaker of I individualize where clothing, your surname, where intense activities ecc.

To converse via email is sufficient a name, also of fantasy, and to define the geographic area where you reside in very generic manner and however in such manner from do not allow to individualize immediately where clothing or work.

During the correspondence via email you will put some questions them that answered will have to be between of them consistent, if perceive some thing of untruth or little convincing lets go all. If in this first phase the speaker puts you questions too specific that compel to reveal you immediately your identity forgets it the contact because you could run some risks.

When to pass the telephone contact If you received piu' photograph in different contexts and is are compatible between them, if the correspondence email and' flowed with simplicity and clarity, if live with serenity this first phase of the relation can consider to pass the telephone contact.

Also here they are necessary you it it: if you supply the telephone number of your fixed device offer to the speaker the possibility of to know also where clothing. If you supply instead a number of a cellular telephone the speaker not and' in a position, with the usual channels, of I individualize your identity.

You can maintain also the anonymity and to speak all over the world free if you and the speaker used Skype. It clicks on the banner in top to this page to know it of piu' and to unload free the Program.

To speak the telephone The telephone contact should contribute to strengthen the trust acquired in the contact via email in the sense that the conversation should happen on rational bases tense to check the reliability, coherence and patience of the speaker. Also in this phase not to reveal elements suitable for your identification.

The meeting Between email and telephone call and' already passed some time, if nothing did you since to now to think that the person with that conversations does not be sincere and honest you can decide passerby to the meeting directed. If instead I persist some doubts or you feel you insecure are still in time to lasciar lose everything without to have problems.

Prudence to the meeting When you decided pass all' meeting directed, leaves always said to an acquaintance where current bushels and to that now will return. To your acquaintance leaves the your cellular number of telephone and that of the one with which you should meet you. If you have a friend that has some time also can make it yourself in the zone of the appointment with the purpose of to hold you of eye.

Ever to make you come to to take you at home or dinnanzi to your work place. The ideal place have to be a square or road dealt and in a daytime schedule. Hence, on foot, you can go in a bar or refreshing situated in zone. It arrives at the appointment from alone and removed from alone. To the first meetings not to make you accompany house in car.

In the meeting directed you should have quite present in your memory the things written via email and said by phone to see if the verbal talk and' consistent or shows discrepancies with respect to the previous contacts.

If you find yourself in the messes If the person met does not convince you or should frighten you, the united states the alone head to find the better manner for andartene. If you have time calls immediately to the cellular one a friend and to say them of to come to to take you, just and' feasible removed from alone even if from the gone out of service of the local one where find you. If you hear about to be really in danger not to hesitate to call the police or ask help to the persons that are yourself around.